[ ugh.......... it's a fair point, and it makes lan wangji win this argument. wei wuxian isn't quite ready for this marriage, not yet. he isn't even sure how he feels about it, wholeheartedly. he doesn't exactly mind, but... ????

it's fine. just give him time. ]

Fine. Then it just means I'll have to find them out by myself. This place does revolve around skinship.

[ skinship doesn't mean getting kinky, but ok. ]

It's fine if I'm the one to initiate it, right? Is that even considered cheating? Probably not.